I have been a very bad blogger. I got caught up in the craziness of the holiday season and then I became totally obsessed with a remodeling project which I finally finished last week and now I’m months behind communicating with ya’ll. One of you even emailed to ask if I was still alive and, other than a few work related scars from a basement that is way too short for normal humans, I am fine. Thanks for caring!
One of the biggest challenges most folks face is dealing with a new boss. No two leaders are the same and there are always preconceptions on both sides that need to be either confirmed or dissolved. It’s something we all go through and not dealing with can destroy careers. Here’s my philosophy.
1) Give him the benefit of the doubt. Rarely does someone come to a new organization with the express purpose of destroying it or making your life miserable. Their leadership style might be different than the one you prefer but, many times, it’s because the organization they came from had different needs. It takes awhile to learn the dynamics of a new situation.
2) Listen. The new guy wants to get up to speed as quickly as possible and will be, or should be, trying to pry as much background information out of you to come up with a strategy to move forward. You, however, need to know his history and perspectives and that knowledge will help you understand the source of his decisions.
3) Make his goals your goals. If the guy is a metrics maniac then give him metrics. If he wants kept up to date on every bit of minutiae then give him every last crumb. If he just wants broad strokes then give him the big picture. It makes no sense to butt heads over the simple stuff.
4) Don’t try to become him. Just because he might like to run marathons or like hockey or love the Grateful Dead doesn’t mean you have do the same things. He doesn’t need your nose planted firmly in his behind and if he does then he won’t last long anyway.
There is one great truth when it comes to any organization. Given enough time it will take on the attributes of its’ leader. I have seen this go very well and I have seen this go very badly. If a leader is, let’s say, lacking in the integrity department he will gradually surround himself with like-minded people. Eventually the organization will become infected to the point that the unspoken core values will be that of the leader. It can take generations of leadership changes at all levels to purge the effects of one bad commander.
There have been an increasing number of incidents in the Air Force, and in the military as a whole, of a lack of integrity. Cheating on tests. Lying to the public and Congress. Failing nuclear surety inspections. Falsifying records. You can try to assess blame at the lowest levels but when an attitude and policy of lawlessness is demonstrated at the highest level, it gradually works its way down through the ranks. When the Commander-in-Chief is flagrantly breaking the law, almost daily, it sends an unspoken message that permeates through the military. It’s up to you, who are still in, to keep the bar high. The means are just as important as the ends. What constitutes an illegal order? What does the constitution, that you have sworn to uphold and defend, really say? Unless we change direction I’m afraid many of you will have to make some career ending decisions when faced with the reality of those questions.
Be a good leader and a better follower. Don’t be sheep.
